The Tech. “so close but far,so far but close”

Technology, that what we call it. 

Smartphone from now and then become our “need” in everyway. we can connected with someone we can’t reach, we can get close with family from another distric or country. but why sometimes the technology (re: smartphone) make us all so close but far, so far but close?

here is the thing. for me, there is an advantage and disadvantage to own a smartphone. the advantage is what I said before, we can getting closer with someone or anyone out there. but the disadvantage are so many. we can close with someone out there but we push someone nearby go, I mean when you are with your friends, hanging out or etc, you will busy with your phone, playing a game or just texting and update your social media. 

maybe this phenomenon are in your area or your inner circle of friends or it is you doing it. I didn’t say to ask you to not enjoy your smartphone, but you have to manage the time to take off your sight from your phone. you didn’t live in social media. I know you all have so many followers on Instagram, have so many friends on Facebook or have a billion subscribers on YouTube but you are live in a real life, you all have a life that you have to live for. what is wrong if you “talk” with your mouth either than you talk with your thumb? what is wrong if you listen them with ears not eyes? 

im not blame the tech, the tech is good if you had times to manage for tech controlled your “fun” but sometimes there are so many people cannot watch their thumb to said what they want to said the didn’t care about someone else life. for example as we saw in social media used their account in unappropriate behaviour to other when they comment or “said the argument” to the people who don't even know who you are. there are so many body shaming, bullying, from one or another. 

I know you all had your rights to use your social media or you smartphone, but your smartphone and social media it’s not for bully a person or forget what you have to do in real life. I once saw a child in a restaurant with her parents, she just look at her iPad when her parents looked at their phone too, they make their child busy so she didn’t asked anything more. I am not a parent or had a child, but sometimes I just sad and confused and ask so many question in my mind “is that smartphone can replace anything?” or “can your smartphone turn back time to make your past better?” or “can your technology make your grown up child act don’t care to her/him parents when you ignore them when he/she wanted your attention when they were little?” I DONT THINK SO. 

don't make your precious time with family, friends even the world consume by a smartphone and social media. you only live once (YOLO) so enjoy it. you don’t have to show your happiness or sadness with bunch of stranger because they not always care what are you doing, what you gonna be. there is a lot of things you can do instead of staring at your social media all day. 

I just said what I want to said, and pardon my English here.

Thank you for your time to read this, 

xoxo.